Wednesday, August 6, 2014

My Comfort Zone

Here's the thing: of the last 12 years, I have been in a defined, committed relationship for nearly 10 years. I started my first long-term relationship at the ripe age of 14. That lasted 7 years. The next was just shy of a year. Then came my two "single" years. And I've spent the last two years in more "real" relationships. It's safe to say relationships are my comfort zone. 

I am most comfortable when I have another person to share my life with. Be that the daily struggles and accomplishments, the emotional and physical connections, or even the seemingly mundane traditions. I am a relationship person. It's who I am, it's all I know. 

But what if the quote above is true? What if my life hasn't even started, and has just been waiting for me to finally give up on this "comfort zone" I've been in? Who knows if that's the case. Luckily, the only way I know how to get through being out of my comfort zone is faith. And there's nothing better to lean on. Despite being so far out of my comfort zone, I am surprisingly at peace. Faith is good. 

Sunday, August 3, 2014

Weekend Wrap Up

Whew. Another summer weekend come and gone, and it's officially August! My goodness, time is flying. 

I have officially been a Viterbo employee for one month. Athletes started moving in this weekend, RAs move in next weekend, and then after two weeks of RA training, move-in weekend will be upon us and the school year will be starting! It's nerve-racking and exhilarating at the same time. 

My mom came to visit me this weekend, and it was everything my heart and soul needed. I know that I am beyond blessed with the relationship I have with my mom. She is, without a doubt, my very best friend. So to have her be the first one to visit my new home in La Crosse, and for me to show her around town and her to help me make this on-campus apartment my home...oh, it meant so much! 

I didn't take any photos during the time we were together, but these are the fruits of our weekend labor! 

Pickles! My very first batch of refrigerator pickles. We bought the cukes at the farmers market. I can't wait to taste 'em when they're ready on Tuesday! 

These babies almost speak for themselves! My mom bought this amazing bouquet for me at the farmers market on Saturday morning. I can't get over how much happiness comes from a beautiful case of flowers in the house. 

It's a little hard to see anything else, but this shows some of the main "homey" pieces that have been added to my apartment. My mom and I picked up curtains and hardware (praise God for 3M hooks!) and hung curtains in the living room and bedrooms. Once she left, I found these cute teal lattern lights on sale at Target. They add a nice touch, but I'm not sure I love them.

My mom and Ginny found this great table for me at a garage sale-- a steal at $10!!! I knew I wanted to refinish and distress it, as I didn't love the dark green legs. I was originally planning to use white paint, but my mom suggested this great green (it's the same green as my wine cork table). I decided to give it a go on Sunday night, and I have to admit-- I'm kinda loving it! That may have been the quickest an easiest DIY furniture project ever. 

Did you all have a great weekend? Is your summer flying by too?!